being normal?

so do you think you are normal? lets say ordinary, so are you? well if anyone of the following 46 points suits you, then yes, you are normal/ordinary/boring person. and trust me there is nothing to be proud of. so just check it out.




1.Normal is anything that makes us forget who we are and what we want; that we can work in order to produce, reproduce and earn money.
2.Setting rules for waging war ( the Geneva convention).
3.Spending years studying at university only to find out at the end of it all that you're unemployable.
4.Working form nine to five every day at something that gives you no pleasure at all just so that, after thirty years, you can retire.
5.Retiring and discovering that you no longer have enough energy to enjoy life and dying a few years of sheer boredom.
6.Using botox.
7.Believing that power is much more important than money and that money is much more important than happiness.
8.Making fun of anyone who seeks happiness rather than money and accusing them of ''lack of ambition''.
9.Comparing objects like cars, houses, clothes, and defining life according to those comparisons, instead of trying to discover real reason for being alive.
10.Never talking to strangers. Saying nasty things about the neighbours.
11.Believing that your parents are always right.
12.Getting married, having children and staying together long after the love has died, saying that it's for the good reason of the children ( who are apparently, deaf to the constant rows).
13.Criticising anyone who tries to be different.
14.Waking up each morning to an hysterical alarm clock on the bedside table.
15.Believing absolutely everything that appears in print.
16.Wearing a scrap coulored cloth around your neck, even though it serves no useful purpose, but which answers to the name of 'tie'.
17.Never asking a direct question, even though the other person can guess what it is you want to know.
18.Kepping smile on your lips even when you're on the verge of tears. Feeling sorry for those who show their feelings.
19.Believing that art is either worth a fortune or worth nothing at all.
20.Despising anything that was easy to achieve because if no sacrifice was involved, it obiously isn't worth having.
21.Following fashion trends, however ridiculous or uncomfortable.
22.Believing that all famous people have tons of money saved up.
23.Investing a lot of time and money in external beauty and caring little about inner beauty
24.Using every means possible to show that, although you're just an ordinary human being, you're far above other mortals.
25.Never looking anyone in the eye when you're travelling on public transport, in case it's interpreted as a sign you're trying to get off with them.
26.Standing facing the door in a lift and pretending you're the only person there, regardless of how crowded it is.
27.Never laughing too loudly in a restaurant however good the joke.
28.In the northern hemisphere; always dressing according to the season: bare arms in Spring (however cold it is) and woollen jacket in Autumn (however hot it is).
29.In the southern hemisphere, covering Christamas tree with fake snow even though winter has nothing to do with the birth of Christ.
30.Assuming, as you grow older, that you're the guardian of the world's wisdom, even if you haven't necessarily lived enough to know what's right and wrong.
31.Going to a charity tea party and thinking that you've done your bit towards putting an end to social inequality in the world.
32.Eating three times a day even if you're not hungry.
33.Believing that other people are always better than you – better looking, mora capable, richer, more intelligent – and that it is very dangerous to step outside your own limits, so it's best to do nothing.
34.Using your car as a weapon and as impenetrable armour.
35.Swearing when in heavy traffic.
36.Believing that everything your child does wrong is entirely down to the company he or she keeps.
37.Marrying the first person who offers you a decent position in society. Love can wait.
38.Always saying: 'I tried' wehn you didn't really try at all.
39.Postponing doing the really interesting things in life for later, when you won't have energy.
40.Avoiding depression with large daily dose of television.
41.Believing that you can be sure of everything you've achieved.
42.Assuming that women don't like football and that men aren't interested in home decoration and cooking.
43.Blaming the government for all the bad things that happens.
44.Thinking that being good, decent, respectable person will mean that others will see you as weak, vulnerable and easy to manipulate.
45.Being equally convinced that aggression and rudeness are synonymous with having a 'powerful personality'.
46.Being affraid of endoscopy (if you are a man) and giving birth (if you are a woman).


Paulo Coelho ''The Winner Stands Alone''


good luck with being ''normal'' :)

SOULMATE

''But how will I know who my Soulmate is?''
''By taking risks,'' she said to Brida. '' By risking failure, disappointment, disollusion, but never ceasing in your search for Love. As long as you keep looking, you will triumph in the end.''


I have never really thought of importance to find a soulmate until yesterday when I picked Paolo Coelho ''Brida'' up. I felt like that book was screaming at me to pick it up and read it, and I have to admit I could not stop until I read it all, it took just 3 hours and all the rest of the day was spent thinking of what are my priorities.
Everone is trying to find their ''The One'', but there are so many varieties of what ''The One'' is. World is full of surprises, for someone it's a fast car, for another its a pillow, for someone else it is just a person who completes them. I wonder if people would give up everything they have learned or everything they possessed until then – all the possibilities that the world could offer them in order to stay with the love of their life? I am pleased that until now I have never had to make such a choice because the decision would be one of the hardest I would ever have to make. Would I be able to give up my love to someone just because my material possessions or my status would be more important, I can not tell yet. They say that in your life you can meet more than one soulmate, but there is a trick though, it might take years until you meet another soulmate and, in fact, you might never meet them, which would be only reasoable. Why would someone deserve to meet more than another soulmate if they did not appriciate the first one they met. It is abotu taking risk, isn't it?
In the end of the day it is about playing our own part in this wonderful play called ''Life'', and at some point we will find our partners, people have done it for thousands of years, so being afried is a complete waste of time.
We all should take more risks, coz there is reward there always is, it's just people just can not see it, because they are way too worried about not doing the same things all over again, but why, why would anyone to repeat same actions all over again and again. If we stoped living in past in our memories, we would discover what a beautiful life they live in..


Sooo from now on, we take risks and look for that special light in people eyes, because who knows we might be looking in our soulmates eyes without even knowing that.